The title suggests that this Article is about you as in your experiences. And I was pretty surprised to read its contents.

I think it's judgemental of you to write about someone's experiences that are different from yours.

The dating 'market' is vicious enough as it is, for us to start shaming single people, normalizing what others would assume and call them "not normal."

Imagine if someone wrote about your experiences and called your life cookie-cutter. Maybe called you far from normal or assumed that none of your decisions are yours and are a product of consumerist mass-fed delusion. I don't think you would like that.

I wouldn't.

You say that you disagree and Society thinks this way. You mention that everyone has a choice and then go on to point out why someone should not make this choice because it's laden with problems.

The general opinion is not more important than an individual's especially when it has no consequences for others. A choice is a freedom and a right and we don't have a choice to decide something as serious as the matters of dating for someone else.

Bottom line, I don't think you and/or Curious should be discussing, labeling, and judging someone else. Instead, please consider writing about experiences, lessons, and mistakes that are entirely your own with honesty.

I am sorry to add that this was not okay.

It will never be okay.